Mediation for Family Law

WHAT IS FAMILY LAW MEDIATION?

Mediation is a process in which both parties to a Family Law dispute enter voluntarily. They agree to meet with the other party to discuss and resolve their issues using a neutral and unbiased mediator to facilitate their negotiations.

People who use mediation realize that their ability to discuss and resolve the issues directly with the other person has been affected by the emotions evoked from the breakdown of their relationship or situation.

The mediation process reduces conflict and allows the parties to move forward in a cooperative way that fosters creative and mutually beneficial solutions.

WHEN IS MEDIATION APPROPRIATE?

Mediation is strongly recommended when both parties are prepared to enter into negotiations in good faith to resolve the issues arising out of the dissolution of their relationship. Both must be prepared to provide complete financial disclosure and be forthcoming with other information, at least to the mediator.

Mediation is especially beneficial whenever children are involved. The goal is to minimize conflict so that the best parenting arrangements can be made for the children. The relationship between the parents, although changed, can then continue in a civil and respectful manner for the sake of the children.

Mediation works very well when there are many issues to be resolved. However, it can be used when there is only one issue in question.

WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF MEDIATION?

A successful mediation will ultimately help both sides in a dispute to resolve their issues with minimal conflict and maximum respect at a more reasonable cost than court proceedings.

Even in high conflict situations, a skilled mediator can structure the mediation process so that both parties feel that they are able to have their needs and interests addressed by the agreement.

Solutions that come out of mediation are ultimately those of the parties and are not imposed by a third party. Mediation is especially beneficial when the parties must continue to deal with each other in their role as parents.

The agreements arrived at are more likely to be honoured when entered into voluntarily.

The skills learned during mediation can also help the parties long after the mediation has been completed.

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Bortolussi Family Law is located in Vaughan, Ontario and serves Woodbridge, Vaughan, Markham, Richmond Hill, Brampton, Newmarket, Aurora, Toronto and the GTA.